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What will you do when your parents is having disagreement with each other?

Mom was trying to reasoning with dad but dad was still stick with his ever conversative thinking. Mom started to sound sad knowing she will never ever win over the husband of hers but she was not giving up.She continued trying to make my dad to accept her reasoning but dad was still as stubburn as a rock. And I was playing PSP between them.

Guess what I did?

I woke up from the sofa and just walked back to my room.

I was trying very hard to think what should I do that time.

In the room, trying hard to think what should I do as a son. I knew that mom purposely brought up the topic to dad with my presence so that I able to back her up. I didn’t do that. I felt it was not the right time for me to do so.

Dad has his reason of being stubburn

Mom has her own reason as well

Finally I did this. I waited for my mom to go shower, I walked out from the room and talk to dad. He gave in and agree with mom. But I felt I made the right choice.

Mom got what she wanted

Dad didn’t need to “lose face” in front of mom for giving in.

Please, tell me what should I do if that happen again. I mean they have their disagreement all the time. Biasa lah kan, old couple d, all those loving loving mushi mushi time had passed, so all they have now is disagreement. But most of the time I’ll just let them be. Brother once asked me to help out when one of the disagreement had gone quite bad. I told my brother to sit back, afterall they survive every disagree for almost 40 years already, they will survive that too.

Sigh, sometime I just don’t understand

What should I do and What will you do?