• Love Or Lust?

    I had a  short conversation with my QA manager and the topic was about having sex with your partner. Then we came to the topic of hiring a prositute to fullfill our sexual desire and I told him

    me:”I don’t want to fuck. I want to make love. That’s two different things”

    him:”Bullshit. It’s impossible”

    me:”Why?”

    him:”For a guy, it is hard for him to differentiate lust and love”

    And he went on and said that guys will always mix love and lust up. When he sees a girl, he likes that girl or even loves her but deep inside, he doesn’t know whether he is just want to have sex with her or he actually loves her. He said guys are very easily get attract by physical attraction.

    I nodded in agreement.Even I alot of time got attracted by physical attraction. Maybe it’s already inside men’s blood that we’re always covered by lust. It’s the matter of are you brave or not. I’m for sure at the chicken side, I’m not brave, if you know what I mean.

    Finally, he ended the topic by saying that I’ll know one day whether it is love or lust and when I have commitment for it, that is love.

    That is why we have Tiger Woods, John Terry and Jack Neo. They are doing it with lust but girls tend to mix those thing with their emotion. So at the end of the day, she will get emotionally attach with the guy.

    Ah…complicated human being, aren’t we.:)
     March 25th, 2010  J   3 comments

    3 responses to “Love Or Lust?”

    • True, without commitment it is only for lust not love.
      Sure it is hard to differentiate, for that man must be careful when deciding to say.”I love you” to a woman.
      Think carefully, think far ahead to future, think like a woman.
      Do you want to spend the rest of your life with that woman or you just attracted to her physical appearance.

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    • yea…true and i think i need to learn hard from now…

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