
Yesterday, my complicated girl friend told me that she has made the decision and wants to cut off all those drama with a guy.
I asked her, ” The decision you made is from your mind or from your heart?”
She told me ,”From the mind”
I told her, “If is like this, don’t bother making the decision then”
She was kinda shocked when I told her that but for me, if a decision is make from our mind but not heart, that decision won’t last long.
That is why a lot of people fail to hold on to their decision. They make those from the mind.
Our heart is a very strong thing. When we make the decision from the heart, the mind will follow and determination is high.
I strongly believe that if making decision only from mind, it’s like living in denial. Because at the end of the day, you’ll follow your heart anyhow.
Finally, I told her that make the decision only when she is able to make from the heart.
She asked me how?
I don’t know.
It’s all by yourself.
True?
I think hell yeah.
What you think?
J
Fakh
April 7th, 2010 at 14:14
It’s true that decisions made by the heart are stronger. However they’re not always the best (most practical) decisions. It really depends..
J
April 7th, 2010 at 14:21
Fakh,
Yea, I agree
Not all the time, if you need to think realistically, then you have to make the decision from mind instead of heart